You are deeply in the Shift!

How your relationships look like from this depth?

Do you feel safe and content within your home environment?

Are you feeling trapped in your body, in your family, at your work place?

 

Does it feel like you are being trapped by someone’s perceptions?  

Are you being hold back by your own limiting believes?

Are you giving yourself permission to merge with your Soul and experience your Divine Self?

 

The Shift is not a story in the book anymore. It is happening right now. Its ripping through the fabric of reality affects our systems
within and our societal systems. It is a force we cannot ignore because
it
brings every unsustainable deeply hidden pattern of our life right to
the surface.
It forces us to be honest and look for the new ways of relating with
ourselves
and each other. We cannot suppress our inner knowing any longer even if
it creates
a dramatic change in our relationship. Today our “truth barometer” is
high on
the mark of how we NEED TO BE in the world, so we can experience the
pleasures
of ecstatic living, maybe for the first time in our lives.

 

If you look carefully, you will begin noticing how each person in your life designed to fit perfectly with your lessons and how
much
flavor they add to your life drama. You may even begin laughing with the
Universe that allows you to deepen your awareness through your
relationships.

 

Everything comes from the Source. And I really understand and mean it these days! Our Source is so much closer to us then we ever
hoped
for. It is the Love, the Truth, the Light and the Beauty within that is
the nurturing
Source of our co-creation. Every one of our mental, emotional, spiritual
states
ripple out into all of our realities whether we are aware of them or
not. We exist
in many more dimensions then we can notice or understand in every single
moment. We are creating within all of these dimensions by emanating our
desires, our frustrations, our disappointments, and our orgasmic moments
into
the fabric of this creation. Even if we cool off and forget our angry
conversation with our child or spouse, it does manifest a few hours
later as a
car accident or in loosing a job a few weeks later. We just cannot see
this
connection most of the time. It is essential for us NOW to take full
responsibility for our states.

 

As we experience low emotional frequencies inside, we entrain others with these frequencies. When we are unhappy with our
partners,
impatient and upset about something not happening our way, on our terms,
we
emanate this energy. Our expectations, self-doubts and resentments bring
duality, judgment and fear, so our manifestations reflect this duality
and give
us experience of more and more contrast.

 

It is a big task to be OK with all there is to explore and experience, especially with yourself. We are big Spirits and our energy
has
huge resonance in our life and the lives of so many others. It is a big
deal to
remember that you are a gift, a miracle, a divine expression of Love and
Light.
It is up to you to make choices that celebrate it every day,
appreciating
yourself totally, completely and without any conditions.

 

Relationships are a Spiritual Tool, a litmus paper that helps you see where you are on your path of becoming Light. You are able
to
reflect more and more light, more and more love and more and Tantric
life force
energy that is the energy of creation from your Universal Home.

Do you recognize yourself at this level?

Do you know how to apply this energy to uplift every aspect of your life?

How much of your Spirit do you experience in your body? In your life?

 

As we form our relationship we look for and choose the most appropriate, the most supporting partners on our dance floor. We start the dance
looking
forward to dancing through life together yet we find ourselves fighting
and
pushing through most of the days. Why?

 

Your all knowing Higher Self chooses the closest relationships to be your most potent, most revealing contracts that reflect your
deep hidden personal issues...

For example, some people call themselves “people pleasers”.  This way of relating is often a defense strategy created in response to an emotional, mental or
physical pain
endured while being criticized or shamed. Experienced over a substantial
period
of time (even for a month or so) this imbalance becomes a second nature.
As we
internalize our cultural or family’s “dos”, “shoulds” and “do nots”, our
body/mind system identifies with external demands and changes our
priorities.
We start responding to other people’s needs and desires instead of
following
our own inclinations. Every criticism and every moment we feel we are
not
living up to other people expectations makes us less confident and
certain. It creates
a need to please others and prove our self-worth or fight back in order
to
restore our dignity. As we go through schooling, marriage, and raising
our own
children, we emanate these lower vibrations of fear, concern, and
self-doubt,
attracting similar relationship into our life.

 

Why do we lose our truth in relationships and take on a false identity to please others?

Lacking true, unconditional love and genuine interest in our lives, we constantly look for people that may fulfill our need for inner
safety
and acceptance. Mistaking this need for a true love, we create all kinds
of
co-dependent relationships that remind us of our family of origin or
reflect
our own state of neediness. Even though these relationships keep us
unbalanced,
unhealthy and unhappy, they provide us with a familiar environment that
we already
learned to navigate by either being invisible or fighting for our
freedom.

 

Living from this perspective becomes our normal operating mode as we put aside our own needs and stop acting on our innate knowing
of
what is right for us. Even though our actions may create an illusion of
comfort
as we avoid criticism and angry interactions, a deep inner resentment
and a bottomless
un-satisfaction begin to build up. This disrupts our life flow and we
start
experiencing our relationships as struggle.

 

Being in relationship is like being a pickle in the jar... Whether you want it or not, you'd be pickled by the brine inside. Long
term
relationships are just like that. When you stay together long enough,
you
either learn to enjoy the brine (the chemicals in your body produced
during
your interactions) or you grow to hate the brine, yet are afraid that
you cannot
live without it. You become so dependent on the flavor it gives to your
life, that
you cannot see yourself living without it. As you continue to
participate in
relating process, you continue producing unpleasant states as these are
the
only states you learned to know. I call this type of relationship
Feeling Good
When Feeling Bad.

 

Do you ever wonder about the phenomenon that on a conversation with a closest friend or a family member about your needs? Even if
you start a conversation articulating your request slowly and
peacefully, you
still end up in the quarrel…  What makes
your dialogue escalate in just a few minutes? Why the heat during your
conversation rises and your good intentions die in a conflict you did
not mean
to create? What drives you into the states that are not only unpleasant,
but
also have long-term implications? What makes you scream and cry while
talking
to the people you love the most?

 

The truth is that during these conflicts you may experience the same type of emotional distress that you’ve experienced before in
your
first relationships with the members of your original family. It
satisfies your
dependency on the chemicals released within the body while you are
feeling
lost, unheard or guilty. Behaviors or beliefs that have been modeled by
your
parents, spouses, or society at large drive you into a conflict-based
conversation. Eventually, this type of interaction becomes a norm and
this way
of being grows to be your own pattern. Your body becomes dependent on
the level
of stimulation that the conflict energy gives you.

 

When a traditional medical doctor treats our conditions using prescribed medications such as neuro stimulants and
anti-depressants, we
receive a chemical that is similar to what we can actually create
internally in
our own body under certain circumstances. For instance, when people
generate
situations where there is no way out or they find the way to pick fights
regularly,
they are looking for pressure, the exhilarating rush that makes them
want to
continue arguing and finding new hooks to engage their partners. This
process helps
them get internally stimulated. Even though it is not socially
acceptable, nor
it is serving the highest good of people involved in the conflict, the
fight
does help create much-needed stimulant for some people and paradoxically
helps them
feel better when they are really feeling worse.

 

The more we allow ourselves to be a part of and co-create this type of environment, the more we become defendant on the energy produced
by the
conflict we create. This behavior forms a habit to be charged by the
energy of
an argument. This need carries itself over to other areas of our lives.
We
subconsciously begin to seek activities and relationships that require
additional pressure, struggle, and drama. We become reliant on chemical
over-production in our system, and our inner pharmacy starts working
over-time
to support our need for this “emotional drug”.

Becoming aware of these tendencies is one of the major steps in self-recovery and change that will allow your inner pharmacy to
produce more
useful chemicals that create higher emotional states (like endorphins). 

 

You have probably experienced something similar in your conversations with you spouse or partner and can recognize the pattern I
am
describing. The next time you talk, you may notice that urge for
conflict that
feels like a need to be stimulated or energized. If you do, take a deep
breath
and stop your drive. Ask if there is a better way to experience a level
of
stimulation you are looking for. Anything you choose consciously would
be
better then an unconscious habit you would be able to transform.

 

 

Today’s practical wisdom to contemplate:

 

1. You have never meant to be small, shushed or insignificant. What others think of you is not
your business, it is theirs...

 

Investing your mental, emotional, spiritual energy in someone's “life accounts” who is not asking you for the investment takes
a lot
of energy yet brings very insignificant result. This energy is needed to
support your business, the business of being YOU.

 

How would you feel like if you live this week as 100% YOU?

How would it look like if you would not make new investments in someone's businesses this week?

 

Take a vacation from everybody’s busyness and invest 100% of your resources in yourself this month.

 

2. Being sensitive does not mean to be emotionally overwhelmed.

 

The Solar Plexus area is the emotional center in your body. Solar Plexus is the center of self-acceptance, self-honor, and self –worth. It
is a
place where you can feel a deep emotional guidance regarding your
relationships
and situations that are difficult to resolve. We often do not recognize
the simple
truth of the Solar Plexus: any feeling is just a feeling. We label our
emotional experiences and use them as the major driving force in our
relationships

 

I invite you to tune into the sensations of this center and find the unsettled energy stored there. Spend a few minutes looking into
this
force, supporting yourself in feeling all that is there to feel. Once
you allow
yourself to feel this energy to the core of all these sensations without
the
fear of being overwhelmed, you will deeply connect to this inner guide
that allows
you to really know what is out there by measuring your environment with
your
emotional barometer. It will provide you with a valuable guidance on how
to
live a life of connection and love.

 

3. Your memory stores hundreds of “recorded” childhood hours filed with criticism, blame and shame. It
is time to re-program your memory!

I have been blessed with a “download” of Love Energy that became my Love,
Loved, Loving meditation. This is an experience of Love that
I've created while in deep trance communion with the Source. Save it to
your
computer (free) and experience the love moving through you. Feel it with
every bit of
your body. It will create a new imprint in your mind and a field of
attraction,
joy and love that you are.